As a Kenyan man, you got that special sauce to be a top romancer. But first, understand that having the bag is key, yet dating ain't about being a broke villager.

1: No Upfront Payments, No Chance

These con artists will try to finesse you with crazy amounts. Some might even ask for thousands or tens of thousands in one go. But know this - if you don't fall for their tricks, you won't lose a single shilling or deal with any dramas. A real woman who wants you will simply wait patiently until you can provide for her properly.

2: You Need Your Own Ride

Most folks don't want others knowing their private affairs. So expect to hear, "Who you rolling up with in that car?" Best to have your own wheels to keep a low profile with your partner.

3: Be a Giver, Not a Scraper

In the beginning, don't be a broke villager counting every cent. Women judge whether to keep you based on how you carry yourself. Some might label you a "cheapskate" and bounce. Fine women who turn heads expect to see you can take care of them right from the start. That's romance 101.